Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Selesai Sudah 'Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus'

Alhamdulillah......malam tadi aku dah khatamkan buku John Gray yang bertajuk 'Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus' setelah hampir 3 minggu.........biasela,jarang baca buku omputih,so bile sesekali baca ni,slow la sikit....

Sedikit kesimpulan yang aku nak ambil dari 2 muka surat terakhir buku ini sekadar utk perkongsian sesiapa sahaja yang membaca entry aku kali ini yang mungkin tidak sempat atau terlalu sibuk dengan tugasan seharian yang tidak pernah ada penghujungnya.Mungkin dengan sedikit kesimpulan yang aku ambil dari buku ini membuatkan anda semua tertarik utk membaca buku ni......

          'To be successful in our relationships we must accept and understand the different seasons of love.Sometimes love flows easily and automatically;at other times it requires effort.Sometimes our hearts are full and other times we are empty.We just not expect our partners to always be loving or even to remember how to be loving.We must also give ourselves this gift of understanding and not expect to remember everything we have learned about being loving.

           The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again.Throughout this book you have learned things that your parents could not teach you.They did not know.But now that you know,please be realistic.Give yourself permission to keep making mistakes.Many of the new insights you have gained will be forgotten for a time.

            Education theory states that to learn something new we need to hear it hundred times.We cannot expect ourselves (or our partners) to remember all of the new insights in this book.We must be patient and appreciative of their every little step.It takes time to work with these ideas and integrate them into your life.

           Not only do we need to hear it two hundred times but we also need to unlearn what we have learned in the past.We are not innocent children learning how to have successful relationships.We have been programmed by our parents,by the culture we have grown up in,and by our own painful past experiences.Integrating this new wisdom of having loving relationships is new challenge.You are a pioneer.You are traveling in new territory.Expect to be lost sometimes.Expect your partner to be lost.Use this guide as a map to lead you through uncharted lands again and again.

           Next time you are frustrated with the opposite sex,rememebr men are from Mars and women are from Venus.Even if you don't remember anything else from this book,remebering that we are supposed to be different will help you to be more loving.Be gradually releasing your judgements and blame and persistently asking for what you want,you can create the loving relationships you want,need and deserve.'

p/s:Buku ini juga sudah mula diterbitkan dalam versi Bahasa Melayu......